Comfy, Calm & Visible Meet-ups
Free Monthly Relaxed Online Networking
Not keen on structured networking with forced elevator pitches?
If standard networking leaves you drained, overstimulated, or just wishing you were somewhere quieter – this is your invitation to try something different.
The Comfy, Calm & Visible Meet-ups happen online each month, and we’d love for you to join us.
Why I created this
I know what it’s like to feel pressured in traditional networking spaces. For a long time, I wished there was a place where I could connect with others, share ideas, and grow my visibility without having to perform or pretend.
I thought there was something wrong with me, why couldn’t I keep up? Why did it take me so long to recharge after a networking session? Why did the conversations feel so forced?
I reasoned with myself. There’s nothing wrong with me and there must be other people out there who feel the same! Turns out, yes there is (and more than I initially thought, once I started posting and talking about this).
So, that’s why I created Comfy, Calm & Visible MeetUps. A softer alternative where you can show up as yourself, whether that’s chatty, kind, shy, introverted, quiet, thoughtful, dreamy, hesitant, alternative, creative… I want you to feel included. (And just maybe, you might show up to one of our meet-ups and find that you no longer feel nervous or anxious – a space especially for you.)
Comfy, Calm & Visible Meet-ups are for you if…
What Happens at a Comfy, Calm & Visible Meet-up?
We keep it simple and relaxed:
“I show up in my own way, at my own pace, and that is enough. My personality, quirks, expertise and skills are equally important. I am worthy and my message is heard. If I do hide away, I know there will always be another opportunity to come back and join in.”
Upcoming Comfy, Calm & Visible MeetUps
What our Meet-up Members Think!
Katy Lassetter – Chichester Copywriter
Katy is a writer, editor, proofreader and marketing specialist, helping Authors write, publish and promote their books and give businesses and brands a boost.
“I love the Comfy, Calm and Visible vibe. I’m not a fan of in-person networking – I get burnt out by travel and overstimulated in busy environments. Going online and meeting likeminded folk in a safe and supportive space is great. There have been some fantastic talks too.
Jessica’s guidance on outreach has been invaluable. Her encouraging words prompted me to follow up on a website project a couple of times. On the second attempt I got the result I wanted, the client committed and paid his deposit.
In the past I might have been tempted to leave it and let the client come back in his own time. But, as Jessica said, we all get busy and sometimes that reminder can be as beneficial for the client as it is for you. Thanks, Jessica and the CCV crew!”
Foteini Sofouri – Web & eLearning Developer
Foteini creates websites, courses, and online academies for unique, human-centred brands that want to monetize their knowledge and expand their impact.
“Being in the business space can feel overwhelming. There’s so much noise around what you’re supposed to do to make a business work.
Attending the CCV meet-ups has helped me see that staying true to my values and personality is actually a business asset, rather than something that holds me back.
There’s no pressure to show up in a certain way during the meetups. If you want to participate actively, you can. If you just want to listen, that’s okay too. Jessica knows exactly what to say to help people feel at ease. When we so often put pressure on ourselves for not doing enough, hearing that it’s okay and that there will be other opportunities is a relief!
One idea from a recent session that made me think was reframing follow-ups as a way of helping clients. It made me reconsider the approach I had taken so far. A lot of the advice online doesn’t match how I want to work, but the guidance shared in these sessions always feels aligned, practical, and human-centered.”
Why Join the Comfy, Calm & Visible Meet-ups?
Keep showing up in your way. Because your voice doesn’t have to be loud to be heard!
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to come every month?
Not at all. Join when it suits you – the virtual door’s always open.
Do I need to speak?
Only if you’d like to. You’re welcome to listen quietly, share when you feel ready, or pop into the chat box. People use the “raise hand” so they speak when they want to, rather than a forced circle.
How long are the meet-ups?
We try to keep the meeting to last for one hour. Long enough to connect, short enough not to overwhelm. If you need to leave for any reason, that is fine.
Is this only for introverts?
Nope! Extroverts are welcome too, the club is for anyone who prefers a calmer, kinder way to connect.
Where do they take place?
Online via Google Meet so you can join from anywhere in the world. The meetings are held usually at 11.00 am or 4.00 pm UK time but other times might be included in the future to try and cater for all.
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